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Rehoboam – The Son Who Forgot the Proverbs | Proverbs: Wisdom Unveiled | Dr. Randy White


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by Randy White Ministries Friday, Jun 27, 2025

Session 19 | Epilogue: Rehoboam’s Failure | Proverbs: Wisdom Unveiled


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I. Introduction: The Intended Audience



A. “My Son” – Proverbs as Royal Curriculum

  • Repeated direct address: “my son” (Prov. 1:8; 3:1; 4:1)

  • The intended heir: Rehoboam, son of Solomon (1 Kings 14:21)

  • Proverbs’ stated goal:


> “To give subtilty to the simple, to the young man knowledge and discretion.” (Prov. 1:4–5)
  • Proverbs is practical Torah guidance for the king:

  • Follow Proverbs → follow Torah → receive Torah’s blessings

  • Proverbs as condensed form of Torah’s promises and commands

B. Who Was Rehoboam?

  • Son of Solomon and Naamah the Ammonitess (1 Kings 14:21)

  • Crowned king at age 41, a mature adult

  • Solomon’s uncertainty about successor (Ecclesiastes 2:18–19)

  • Reigned 17 years in Jerusalem over Judah (1 Kings 14:21)

  • Oversaw kingdom division, continuous civil war (1 Kings 14:30)

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II. Rehoboam’s Rise and First Test: A Crisis in Leadership (1 Kings 12:1–20; 2 Chronicles 10)



A. The People’s Appeal: A Call for Relief

  • Israel’s request: lighten heavy burdens (1 Kings 12:4)

  • Solomon’s demanding reign: forced labor, heavy taxation (1 Kings 4:7–28; 5:13–18)

  • Samuel’s earlier warning of royal burdens (1 Samuel 8:11–18)

  • Relevant proverb:


> “Withhold not good from them to whom it is due, when it is in the power of thine hand to do it.” (Prov. 3:27–28)


B. Rehoboam’s Counsel

  • Elders advised gentle service:


> “If thou wilt be a servant unto this people…they will be thy servants for ever.” (1 Kings 12:7)
  • Proverbs connection:


> “A soft answer turneth away wrath.” (Prov. 15:1)
  • Young men advised harsh dominance:


> “My little finger shall be thicker than my father’s loins… I will chastise you with scorpions.” (1 Kings 12:10–11)
  • Proverbs warning:


> “The way of a fool is right in his own eyes.” (Prov. 12:15)


C. His Decision: Rejecting the Wisdom of the Wise

  • Rehoboam answered roughly and arrogantly (1 Kings 12:13–14)

  • Violated direct proverb:


> “Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.” (Prov. 16:18)


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A Word Already in Motion: Understanding the Prophecy

  • Prophecy of division given to Solomon (1 Kings 11:11–13)

  • Ahijah’s prophecy about Jeroboam’s rise (1 Kings 11:29–39)

  • Prophecy as recognition of trajectory already underway:

  • Solomon’s idolatry and heavy burdens (1 Kings 11:4–8)

  • Prophecy not deterministic but descriptive

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III. Fallout: The Kingdom Splits – A Foolish Son Brings Ruin



A. Ten Tribes Rebel

  • Northern tribes reject Rehoboam’s rule (1 Kings 12:16)

  • Only Judah and Benjamin remain loyal

  • Proverb fulfilled:


> “Where no counsel is, the people fall.” (Prov. 11:14)


B. Attempt to Retaliate

  • Rehoboam assembled 180,000 soldiers to fight Israel (1 Kings 12:21)

  • Intervention by prophet Shemaiah prevented war (1 Kings 12:22–24)

  • Proverbs counsel ignored initially:


> “Every purpose is established by counsel: and with good advice make war.” (Prov. 20:18)


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IV. Rehoboam’s Reign: A Life of Half-Heartedness



A. Spiritual Decline

  • Rehoboam forsook God’s law after strengthening his position (2 Chron. 12:1)

  • Direct contrast with Solomon’s teaching:


> “My son, forget not my law; but let thine heart keep my commandments.” (Prov. 3:1)


B. Invasion of Shishak (Egypt)

  • Egyptian invasion as divine consequence (2 Chron. 12:2–4)

  • Temple treasures and golden shields seized (2 Chron. 12:9)

  • Loss symbolized God’s removed favor and royal dishonor

C. Superficial Repentance

  • Temporary humility after invasion (2 Chron. 12:6–12)

  • Legacy summarized negatively:


> “He did evil, because he prepared not his heart to seek the Lord.” (2 Chron. 12:14)
  • Violation of Proverbs warning:


> “Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.” (Prov. 4:23)


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V. Lessons from Rehoboam: What Happens When a Son Ignores Wisdom



A. A Tragic Illustration of Proverbs

  • Rehoboam’s life as practical caution against ignoring instruction

  • Key Proverbs illustrating his failure:


> “He that refuseth instruction despiseth his own soul.” (Prov. 15:32)
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> “The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.” (Prov. 29:15)


B. A Broken House, A Divided Nation

  • United kingdom shattered permanently

  • Judah survived, northern tribes (Israel) fell into idolatry and destruction

  • Division directly linked to Rehoboam’s disregard of Proverbs-based instruction from Solomon


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